Do you know couples who never stop fighting and getting frustrated?
Change Your Relationship Now
Couples bond because they want to stay together. Most of the time there is little awareness of the deeper problems that can arise in the relationship later in time. And that’s a good thing, otherwise many would not take the step and want to commit to each other.
What if the relationship cannot be without arguments, repetitive disappointments and frustrations and the break of connection with each other?
Understand your patterns and change your relationship now:
What is ‘Freeze’?
‘Freeze’ is a protective mechanism that is supposed to protect us from impending danger. If there were overwhelming experiences in the past, our body is still working in the same mode. If the partner triggers this old mechanism in the other, through their behavior or emotions, the following can happen: that partner disappears, becomes frozen, leaving the scene. Inwardly he/she feels scared, paralyzed, in a danger zone, the pulse goes higher, a feeling of shame rises and he/she is ready to fight and defend self.
Then the other partner feels abandoned, rejected and devalued.
You are not your patterns! But these patterns can be recognised and worked with so that a loving and connected relationship can be built again.
Often, both partners carry old wounds. In the relationship, however, their wounds show up differently. In my experience, it is very rare that only one partner carries them. For the most part, both of them bring old patterns that can torture the relationship.
Get help through Couples Counselling, so that your marriage/partnership does not have to suffer any longer unnecessarily! Take care of your relationships and invest in life.
Book your first Couples Counselling session with me:
Booking – Online Couples Counselling: TinaMHo@gmx.net
Tel: +43 680 5575205
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